Enfants éponges
Written by Stéphanie // septembre 22, 2010 // Videos // 6 Comments
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Mon fils est grand, beau, drôle, intelligent et c’est une éponge. Comme beaucoup d’enfants, il absorbe toutes les émotions qui passent.
Il sait toujours comment je me sens même si je tente de cacher parfois mes émotions. Il s’arrête net, à l’aguet comme un chien de chasse, dès qu’il entend un autre enfant pleurer dans la rue. Certains parlent d’enfant Indigo ou d’enfants à l’intelligence émotionnelle sur-développée. C’est une grande force dans la vie. C’est aussi un handicap face à notre système éducatif. Je ne compte plus le nombre de fois où des éducateurs l’ont mis de côté en évoquant “autisme”, “troubles du comportement”, “difficultés d’apprentissage”, “déficit d’attention”, etc.
Je l’ai emmené chez un ortho-pédagogue. Diagnostic: enfant normal.
Je l’ai emmené chez un pédiatre. Diagnostic: enfant normal.
Je l’ai emmené chez un pèdo-psychologue, docteur en neurosciences, spécialiste des enfants aux comportements “dérangeants”. Diagnostic: normal.
Hmmmm.
Les éducateurs qui mettent mon fils de côté et qui viennent m’expliquer qu’il ne se conforme pas tout le temps à tout ce qu’on lui demande ne sont pas formés pour poser des diagnostics sur un enfant. Ils semblent ne pas être formés non plus pour juste leur offrir un peu d’écoute, un peu d’attention.
Quand j’avais l’âge de mon fils, j’avais des “problèmes” similaires mais j’étais une fille alors on ne m’a pas mis de côté. Et puis, c’était pas la mode du Ritalin!
Au bout de plusieurs années, j’ai fini par me rendre compte que quand une éducatrice vient poser un diagnostic sur un comportement de mon enfant, finalement, c’est d’elle qu’elle parle, pas de lui, car elle n’a pas pris le temps de comprendre avant de juger. Certains me diront que les éducateurs travaillent dans des conditions difficiles dans des classes surchargées. Ils sont 16 dans sa classe…. C’est vraiment que l’enseignement est un travail difficile. Je fait ça depuis suffisamment d’années pour le savoir…. Mon mentor me disait souvent qu’un seul mot doit guider notre pratique d’enseignant: la bienveillance.
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6 Comments on "Enfants éponges"
Aujourd’hui, ne parle-t-on pas davantage d’enfant cristal? La seconde tranche d’évolution des “nouveaux enfants”.
Bon point. Cependant il y a toujours les enfants Indigo, plus que jamais. Je crois qu’il y a a peu près 70% (si je ne me trompe pas) des enfants qui naissent maintenant qui le sont.
J’ai entendu dire que les enfants dit “cristal” sont en général les enfants des Indigo. Je sais qu’on peut trouver sur Google, mais je crois que ce genre de catégorie d’enfant ne peut être reconnue que par des experts, hors nous trouvons beaucoup de n’importe quoi sur Google sur le sujet. IL faut pouvoir trier!
Le travail à faire actuellement est de dépister ces enfants précoces, indigo ou cristal ou ce qu on veut et d’adapter l’enseignement, or actuellement rien n’est fait pour ces petits, ni au niveau des psys, ni au niveau des enseignants. Tout le monde dans la même école c’est la démocratie mais c’est injuste pour tous ceux qui auraient besoin d’une autre écoute. C’est donc aux parents d’être vigilants et de s’informer. Bon courage !!!
En effet; convaincre l’appareil éducatif gouvernemental de la présence d’un nouveau type d’enfant sur la base de connaissances/croyances spirituelles, ça va prendre du temps.
Les enfants indigo et cristal ont des caractéristiques assez différentes, selon ce que j’ai pu en lire. Les enfants cristal seraient justement, ces enfants très sensibles aux sentiments des autres.
Entre autres: “The first thing most people notice about Crystal Children is their eyes, large, penetrating, and wise beyond their years. Their eyes lock on and hypnotize you, while you realize your soul is being laid bare for the child to see.” Can you say Manu, Chiara, Liane, Zoe, and yes, I don’t know him very well, but probably Mathieu as well?
http://www.starchild.co.za/what.html
Ce qui caractérise les indigo:
“The older children (approximately age 7 through 25), called “indigo Children”, share some characteristics with the Crystal Children. Both generations are highly sensitive and psychic, and have important life purposes. The main difference is their temperament. Indigos have a warrior spirit, because their collective purpose is to mash down old systems that no longer serve us. They are here to quash government, educational, and legal systems that lack integrity. To accomplish this end, they need tempers and fiery determination.” (Je me suis rendue compte que j’étais une indigo il y a à peine 2 ou 3 ans… ça explique toute mon enfance).
La différence entre les deux:
“In contrast, the Crystal Children are blissful and even-tempered. Sure, they may have tantrums occasionally, but these children are largely forgiving and easy-going. The Crystals are the generation who benefit from the Indigos trailblazing. First, the Indigo Children lead with a machete, cutting down anything that lacks integrity. Then the Crystal Children follow the cleared path, into a safer and more secure world.”
Différents auteurs écrivant sur ce sujet ont déterminé les caractéristiques principales des indigo et des cristal:
INDIGOS
• Come into the world with a feeling of royalty (and often act like it).
• Have a feeling of “deserving to be here,” and are surprised when others don’t share that.
• Do not have an issue with self-worth. They often tell the parents “who they are.”
• Have difficulty with absolute authority (authority without explanation or choice).
• Simply will not do certain things; for example, waiting in line is difficult for them.
• Get frustrated with systems that are ritually oriented and don’t require creative thought.
• Often see better ways of doing things, both at home and in school, which makes them seem like “system busters” (nonconforming to any system).
• Seem antisocial unless they are with their own kind. If there are no others of like consciousness around them, they often turn inward, feeling like no other human understands them. School is often extremely difficult for them socially.
• Will not respond to “guilt” discipline (“Wait till your father gets home and finds out what you did”).
• Are not shy in letting you know what they need.
…from “The Indigo Children: The New Kids Have Arrived” by Jan Tober and Lee Carroll.
They:
• Are highly intuitive – can be telepathic and show extrasensory capabilities.
• Will often say seemingly ‘profound’ statements and have an strong interest in God – they often seem wise beyond their years.
• Are very sensitive to the environment, (can include food & additives), energy fields, electrical currents, as well as emotional sensitivity to what is happening around them.
• Are strong willed – have a determination about them, often ‘warrior-like’ in their personality.
• Will often ‘call them as they see them’ and won’t hold back from doing so.
• Can have a fiery temper and demeanor – rarely wavers from the one-track mind.
• Can often be confused with having a defiant attitude – will often do the exact opposite of what they are told to do.
• Have a strong need to help others, individually or globally.
• Are often introverted and a loner.
• Like to work alone most of the time or in groups where is there is mutual cooperation and respect.
• Are seemingly antisocial until they meet up with others like them.
• Are very technologically oriented – usually are whizzes at computers or other gadgetry.
• Deal often with depression, insomnia, or bodily issues such as chronic fatigue, fibromyalgia and in extreme cases – energetic mania or freneticness.
• Can be misdiagnosed as ADD or ADHD.
…from Olena Gill, author of “The Indigo Survival Guide”
CRISTALS:
• Are usually born in 1995 or later.
• Possess large eyes with an intense stare.
• Have magnetic personalities and are highly affectionate.
• Start talking late in childhood (3-4 years old) and are very musically oriented and may sing before talking.
• Use telepathy and self-invented sign language to communicate.
• May be diagnosed with Autism or Asberger’s syndrome.
• Are even-tempered, sweet, and loving and are forgiving of others.
• Are highly sensitive and empathetic.
• Are very much connected to nature and animals.
• Exhibit healing qualities.
• Are quite interested in crystals and rocks.
• Often discuss angels, spirit guides and past-life memories.
• Are extremely artistic and creative.
• Prefer vegetarian meals and juices to “regular food”.
• May be fearless explorers and climbers with an amazing sense of balance.
…from “The Crystal Children” by Doreen Virtue, Ph.D.
They:
· Love lots of colour – rainbows, multicoloured in the way they dress or how they see the world around them and will stand out because of it, e.g. will wear red skirt with orange socks, blue shirt with white hat.
· Are very sensitive to the environment, (can include food & additives), energy fields, vaccines, chemicals & pesticides, noise, electrical currents (ie. watches will stop, etc.), as well as emotional sensitivity to what is happening around them.
· Have a fragility or sense of vulnerability around them and yet very strong internally – strong will and determination when focused.
·Have an affinity to rocks, crystals and stones.
· Usually possess a sense of fearlessness.
· Are highly artistic and creative with a bountiful imagination · Are usually gifted in one or more areas ie. art, music, math, etc. – as a result, subjects in school can be viewed as boring and senseless – displays desire to stay focused on the gifted area in their life.
· Are very comfortable being around plants, nature, animals.
· Have an inherent ability to uncover people’s fear – they seem to connect and know what is in one’s head and heart.
· Can be misdiagnosed as Autistic.
· Can often be delayed in speech – late talkers, impaired speech or hearing.
· Are can very gentle and forgiving – very loving and compassionate personality.
· Have natural healing abilities.
· Often have large, clear eyes – eyes are prominent in photographs or when looking at you – sometimes you can feel as if they are staring right though you.
…from Olena Gill, author of “The Indigo Survival Guide”
Oops, oublié de mettre la source:
http://www.mastersinstitute.org/indigo.html